Touch with words

Looking back on the year 2020, I continue to reflect on lessons learned during the pandemic.  The first two: 1) All plans are tentative 2) Slow down Another lesson has been learning to touch people with words when not allowed to touch them physically.  Having taught at the college level for over twenty-five years, trying … More Touch with words

Spiritual infanticide

It is hard to imagine a baby being left alone to die.  As hard as this is to imagine happening to a physical baby, it happens frequently in churches across America to spiritual babies.  We often leave new believers “on their own” after baptism, expecting them somehow to figure out the Christian life by themselves.  … More Spiritual infanticide

Are you coasting?

 Do you have any intentional plans to grow this year?  A few years ago I saw a quote on the preacher’s door at my home church, that said, “If you are not growing, then you are coasting.  And if you are coasting, you’re going downhill” One of the major purposes of the Church is to … More Are you coasting?

We are all priests!

Everyone has special gifts, talents, abilities, and experiences. It would be a shame for you and I to go through life and not take the time to pour into others what we have received. I love the principle of equipping found in 2 Timothy 2:2. The Apostle Paul told his young protégé, Timothy, “The things … More We are all priests!

Can I sit here?

Life is too short to spend it only with people your own age.  Intergenerational relationships can be some of the most rewarding in life, but crossing the generation gap takes courage. I deal with this divide every time I walk into the cafeteria of the university where I teach. In that moment, I have to … More Can I sit here?

Listen and Learn

Other-focused people are great listeners.  Listeners can be selective, attentive, or empathic. When we listen selectively, we focus only partially on others, hearing only part of what they say—often only the parts we want to hear. When we listen attentively, we pay attention to the other person and probably will remember what he or she … More Listen and Learn